Most people are familiar with the traditional way of divorcing: going to court and litigating their case before a judge, who ultimately decides the couple’s issues, such as the division of property or child custody.
However, there’s another way to divorce.
Mediation
Mediation differs from litigation in that it is outside of court, facilitated by a neutral third party, and meant to be less adversarial because it requires the parties to work together to find solutions.
It also offers a variety of additional benefits, such as:
- Cost-effectiveness
- Efficiency
- Privacy
- A faster result.
Courts around the country encourage parties to mediate their issues before going to trial because this form of alternative dispute resolution is so effective.
Is anything required for mediation?
The most important things to bring to mediation are a positive attitude and an open mind. Both are critical because you will work together to find mutually agreeable solutions. Your mediator will facilitate a structured conversation, but you and the other party are in the driver’s seat.
Can I bring my attorney to mediation?
Absolutely. Many individuals mediate their divorces using the services of a skilled attorney who negotiates on their behalf.
It is crucial, however, to know what you want and do not want and to communicate clearly with your attorney so they can help as much as possible.